The most basic thing, germination of a seed starts by defying the law of gravity. The primary base of all life getting tethered to the surface of the spherical earth hanging in vast space. The seed starts growing into a sapling by defying that very law and shooting its excessively fragile limbs towards the sky to break free from the soil crust and start feeding on the sunlight. Life starts with defying the basic law of nature. Seed’s intention is not anarchy; it is targeted defying of the law and having a clear path on which direction to move in. Not a fluke, not the idea of just not following, but defining a totally different yet committed path. The sapling never thinks of growing lateral to the ground, but away from it and towards the sky. It does not even care which way it was buried in the ground, there is no right or wrong way of putting the seed in soil. You sow it upside down or right side up, it will still grow in the right direction. While it does that, it keeps on strengthening its grip on the soil to help it stay grounded and not just go awry.
"Yes, that is the seed and the plant and the tree life, we humans are different" says the skeptic in the mind. But are we truly different? Human life (and all animal life) starts in the womb, with the fetus being submerged in a viscous liquid, for not a few seconds or minutes, but for a whole 9 months for humans (varies by species).
No oxygen mask, no plugs on nose, ear mouth, no restraints or support equipment, just floating in viscous liquid and drawing strength from that to grow. Think of a non-amphibious earth dwelling animal being submerged in any liquid for a period longer than a few minutes, the only result will be death. So life starts with a phenomenon that otherwise is fatal by natural laws.Life starts with defying what otherwise is universally
accepted as a norm.
I am just thinking, can this ideology be applied to when one
is feeling stuck, when it seems there is nowhere to go? After all in such a
situation a lot of time one might be thinking of nothing but a ReStart.
Today, I may have no clue how, but I feel this might work, so to all who are feeling stuck and contemplating a restart. May be defying some so called/ imposed / self-imposed kind of norms may be the way. But like the seed, having a clear new vision and direction.
I will share my experience if I ever get in that boat and in return, I would hope you share yours.


You always give food for thought with your blogs. While analysing my past experience, this happened in my life also
ReplyDeleteThanks Bhai. Sharing experiences can guide others
DeleteInteresting analogy Nikhil. Going thru similar state right now.
ReplyDeleteThanks Vinay. Try the way, break a norm and good luck for the situation you are in
DeleteA beautifully written and thought-provoking reflection. I really enjoyed how you used the seed as a metaphor for life's restarts.
ReplyDeleteFrom a Buddhist perspective, the seed isn't truly defying nature—it is simply expressing its true nature. Its roots go deeper while its shoot reaches for the light. Likewise, when we feel stuck, perhaps the answer is not to rebel against everything, but to let go of limiting beliefs and move forward with clarity and wisdom.
Thank you for sharing such an inspiring perspective. It gave me something meaningful to reflect on.
Thanks 🙏
ReplyDeleteWhat a beutiful metaphor to human life and its stuck situations. Philosophical and inspiring at the same time.
ReplyDeleteThanks Bhai
DeleteJust read this, and it resonates deeply with what I’m going through professional restart right now. Thank you for putting this perspective into words.
ReplyDeleteYou are a true fighter, if my words help you rediscover your true power.. Then that makes me very happy.
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