Defining Being

As you may know me.... I try to pen my feelings, with more honesty than with language and grammar. While reading the posts below you may experience what compelled me to write these.
While I was thinking of giving a name to my Blog; this came to me; "Nuances of Being"
Being "Me" is the best that I am at and hope that will show in the posts below

And Thanks for reading

~Nikhil




Sunday, December 31, 2017

2017- A Quick Mémoire

It is coming to an end in a few minutes and all I can say is, “What a Year!!!”

Truly, in so many ways 2017 was different from almost any year in my life. So many things that I had done in this year, were either rare or never done in the past.
I had traveled more than ever in 2017, 2 trips to India and then a lot of domestic travel, in the US (and in India during my two visits). Using all modes available from air planes to train to bus to taxi to tuk-tuk to uber and more. And yes, I also rode a bike just last week, the big deal was that I had not done that in more than 20 years. While on the topic of travel and transport, also ended up buying a new car this year, and saying adios to the 1st car I had purchased 16 years ago(A very emotional goodbye honestly)

I am not big time into gadgets but for one reason or the other I ended up buying 6 computers and 4 cell phones this year (of course not all for me only). Usually past years had seen any where from none to two total devices brought. In fact, 2 of the 4 phones were bought just today, the last day of the year. Was compelled by reasons out side direct control to buy (read as an almost dying phone)

On another major front, I had changed a job in 2017, something that I last did in 2001. Seems like almost a past life when I had switched a job before this year.

Above are just a few examples of what 2017 had been like.

There had been many bitter sweet moments through out the year. Fear and triumph playing hide and seek. Scare and joy following each other at close distance. Relations were built and re-built this year. Stories being told, re-told and many new stories conceived throughout the past twelve months. Having lend a helping hand to friends needing one a few times and getting a hundred helping hands when I needed one. This and a lot more.

The sum total of last 12 months have been a Year Well Lived. I have done some good and some bad, have received love, appreciation and blessings from many and have disappointed some as well. But before the new year starts, I want to humbly thank everyone for the love and support and blessings throughout the year. Some of what I may not even have been worthy of. And to those that I disappointed, I sincerely want to extend an honest apology. If I have wronged you in any way, I can assure you that it was not intentional. And I promise to those who blessed me and to those whom I disappointed and also to my self that I will continue on my quest to become a better person in the year to come and always.

The new day, the new year is about to start, the slate is going to be clean again, the 12-month cycle is resetting and so I vow to write a better story than the past.

The blessings from the heavens will stay with you through out the year. The sun shining tomorrow will bring the promise of a renewed life. And if it rains then it will cleanse every splotch of the past and if it snows it will blanket everything with the purity of itself. One way or the other the new year is going to be great, as great as you want it to be and more.

As for me before I close this note, a special thanks to my family here in the house with me and there, thousands of miles away, and thanks to all the friends. This year has been truly remarkable because you all had been holding my hand no matter what. Life stays blessed with all of you there.

So New year, bring it on! We are ready for more stories, more blessings, more fun, more success, more collaborations, more togetherness and more Life.



HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Monday, December 11, 2017

4th serving From the back of my Notebook

A few random thoughts below, so random that none of them is in same line of thinking as other. Hope you like them, I have scribbled more on the back of my notebook, but those for another day now

ü  A ‘Dilbert’ has no hope, only a ‘Wally’ can evolve into an Adams eventually. (A true Scott Adam’s / Dilbert fan will agree)

ü  Sun and the moon though very different, but still rise from the same direction and set in the same direction as each other. Just pick different time, such harmony in difference only can give rise to life

ü  Every war begins as an ideological difference. All differences solved with reason lead to constructive growth and all neglected or forced solutions lead to war.

ü  Every moment in life is a like “Leaf by Niggle”  just a leaf if you don’t care but a part of a tree and then a forest and then a whole world if you think (Read Tolkien’s beautiful short story “leaf by Niggle”)

ü  Beauty of the Rose is a debt from Soil, who stays ugly so that the rosebush stays well fed. Alas no one admires the soil and the bush while admiring the rose

ü  When you have only “one throat to choke”, you care for it rather than choking it to avoid losing your only bargaining chip

ü  Technology is so great, that unleashed it can morph into the Armageddon it self

ü  When only lies are selling, truth must wait patiently for its turn (because eventually truth would prevail .... always)

ü  Be grateful of what you have received, Be hopeful for what you May receive and Be mindful of what you have lost

ü  Every fight has a reason, but every reason is not worth fighting for


The last 3 portions of this line of thinking are below for refreshers!!
http://nuancesofbeing.blogspot.com/2013/03/back-of-my-notebook.html
http://nuancesofbeing.blogspot.com/2014/10/morefrom-back-of-my-notebook.html
http://nuancesofbeing.blogspot.com/2017/03/3rd-serving-from-back-of-my-notebook.html