Defining Being

As you may know me.... I try to pen my feelings, with more honesty than with language and grammar. While reading the posts below you may experience what compelled me to write these.
While I was thinking of giving a name to my Blog; this came to me; "Nuances of Being"
Being "Me" is the best that I am at and hope that will show in the posts below

And Thanks for reading

~Nikhil




Thursday, November 13, 2014

IF I could Choose....


Few months ago I wrote about life being a result of how and what we chose. Sharing some choices in conflicting situations...this list keeps on getting edited


What will I chose?

Being nice or being honest
I will mostly chose the 2nd  (And mostly repent later)
Politically Correct or Correct
I will mostly choose the 2nd   (again to repent later)
Caring or concerned
I will go for the 1st one
Brave or Responsible
This is a tough one, and after a lot introspection I will chose the 2nd
Scared or Courageous
I will choose the 2nd (if it was afraid instead of Scared my answer could have been different)
Spiritual or Religious
Hands down 1st  will be my choice
Serve or Being Served
A majority of times 1st
Pray or Celebrate
Another difficult one but I may chose 2nd  
Play or Sleep
Mostly I will chose 1st
Work or Rest
1st comes naturally (though painfully sometimes)
Listen or Argue
I will choose 1st
Lead or Collaborate
Very situational, but I will choose 1st whenever 2nd fails (or has potential to fail) Lead by Collaboration is the Mantra


While we are it, just borrowing some time less wisdom from Sir Isaac Newton and applying it to Life
Laws of motion at Workplace (or school…or community…or…. )
1st LAW: Law of Inertia: To make anything happen, you need to put effort…no effort no results (there are no shortcuts)
2nd LAW: Mass and Acceleration: Bigger the problem, more the Effort needed to solve it. Crying and Complaining does not count towards Effort
3rd LAW- Action and reaction: No action no reaction; so having no reaction may be an indicator of lack of action.