Defining Being

As you may know me.... I try to pen my feelings, with more honesty than with language and grammar. While reading the posts below you may experience what compelled me to write these.
While I was thinking of giving a name to my Blog; this came to me; "Nuances of Being"
Being "Me" is the best that I am at and hope that will show in the posts below

And Thanks for reading

~Nikhil




Sunday, January 12, 2020

Grand Canyon


Look around, the vast expanse of beauty will surely take your breath away and make you ask, HOW?

The theories by geologist are certainly there but none of them seem to be acceptable to mind. Philosopher, or the logical, or romantic or whichever way one defines oneself, they all come to one conclusion that theories do not justify the scenery and its creation.


That is Grand Canyon for you.

This was my 2nd time here, and I was even more awed and more mesmerized than the 1st time. Hundreds of miles of stretch and thousands of feet depth and the turquoise blue river that seems to crawl through the canyon like a snake. But it is not crawling, it is gushing at top speed and roaring while it does the same. 
I agree with the Natives; who have called this place home for centuries; that all this is sacred. Also, I can’t argue against the theory that this can be the birthplace of life as we see. The energy that this place emits. The open arms invitation that it extends to everyone, welcoming to embrace all in a loving warm hug. You soak in the beauty. You be a part of it. You feel the connection, a connection that is way older than you or maybe even older than the human race. The nationality, the race, the language and many such things that we commonly tag ourselves with seem to lose significance.

Now some theories I heard
The sudden impact talks about two tectonic plates colliding and the force generated was so strong that it raised the whole area (thousands square miles) by  many thousand feet. And a canyon cut through.

The multi-million-year concept talks about the river painstakingly chiseling it down for more than 70 million years.

Then there is 2 rivers theory that talk about a possible ancient river flowing in opposite direction from the one that flows now. And the flood theory and the volcanic eruption theories.

But what do you accept? What do you believe? None of that syncs in as all of that is way beyond our reach of knowledge and strength. We, humans, being creatures of logic want more proof, want documentation, want a precise reason and not opposing theories. So, it leaves us wanting. I felt humbled by the vastness and my own existence in relation to that. I am sure I was not the only one in feeling that way.

Anyhow I did feel that whatever science tells, it all started with a creator who wanted to create something unique. With a hammer and chisel, chipping the rock. Slowly and deliberately. Shaping the formations, exposing the layers from the rock. Making curves and edges. Delivering some harder and forceful blows followed by many calculated soft hammerings. Inch by inch. Rock by rock. Stone by stone. Creating the landscape. And then one day millions of years later, the master creator stopped, kept the hammer and chisel away and walked. You may find somewhere the Hammer and Chisel; if you are committed to find. The work was done. It was complete. Actually, it had always been complete and the chisel and hammer could have stopped carving the rock any time. 

The creator then said, "you who will come one day may ask for documented proof. And I am giving you that. Not a scientific journal but a canvas with a million stories of its creation. You may ask and argue. Or you may just observe and witness and find your own theory, your own story. I want you to know, your story is right. As right as that of your friend. However different those two may be. Just carry your story with you. Sit around bonfire in the night and share your stories. Sing and dance and laugh. Speak and sing in different languages and still know that everyone understands."

"Live, that is what the canyon tells you. You will always feel small till you compare. But read my hammer strikes and you will know; you don't have to compare. You are a part of the vastness. You are one with the Canyon and the river below. You have been created with same pain and toil as the Canyon. Ask me because I did that too. Some of you name that effort as evolution. And evolution it is. So, go blessed and return some day to read more stories in these rocks. More stories to live and share and sing about."

I just shared my story with you. My theory, what I saw and decoded. Logical or philosophical or romantic or just insane, I don't know. I leave it to you to decide. But one day let us go back and explore more. Explore the next chapter of the stories, as I've told some of you, "I believe best stories are those that don't want to end"

Note: The Pictures above are taken by me, some in 2005 when I went to Grand Canyon for the 1st time and some in 2020, during my 2nd visit.

Thursday, January 2, 2020

Welcome Twenty 20


2020 is officially here. And keeping the tradition (and my promise) I am going to recap the year that just ended. 
But first let me start by noting the significance of 2020. Especially with my South Asian roots, the term 2020 became a synonym of fun and excitement since the 1st cricket world cup was played in year 2007, 1st for the shortest version of the game. The T-20 or Twenty 20.

Now a quick flashback. 2019 had been a year of promises and fulfillment in many respects. 

However, unlike 2 years before 2019, the year went with lesser events. In a way a good thing, but at the same time, it had been so busy that reflecting and memorizing any events could not have been easy. “When moving at top speed, you miss the view around the road” that can sum up 2019 for me.

When 2019 started, I made a list of things. My to-do list at work and at home. But with each breath I took in 2019; a few days were gone. The time flew so fast that before I could even count the tasks on my list, the year turned. 

I was looking back, and realized, while keeping some promises with my world; I had missed on some self-promises made at the dawn of 2019. While some were okay to not fulfill, others made me pay for missing.

The best part, I think I made some new friends in 2019 and met some old ones. If you read my posts, you may remember the college reunion, I attended in July 2019. And another one that I didn't write about was meeting another friend after almost 25 years and realizing that for last 5 years we have been living less than 10 miles apart. 'Mental note; never get too busy that you forget to check with friends regularly.'
 
2019 also took me to Paris, 1st trip to Europe with the family during spring break. I am sure all four of us built some lifetime memories. 

And since the year had been busy at work, so tried to steal some time with family and meet the old friend, "Mickey Mouse" in his home in Orlando in the last week of the year. Reinforcing the belief that however difficult the situations might be, but a few days of uninterrupted family time makes things amazing. Like Mr. Walt Disney had said “A man should never neglect his family for business”  And I promise to not forget that it all started with a mouse (very potent teaching if one wants to learn)

As you can see not too many mention-able items in 2019, but hopefully 2020 will have many amazing stories to share. 

2020 as I said before, means fun and excitement guaranteed. Also, this year is extra special for another reason. Which I will speak of somewhere mid of the year. 

I will open door to 2020 with revived promises from last year with some added flavor -
·         ~Work for living and laugh to live (and live to laugh)
·        ~Stay always dependable (home or office); and show people around that they can count on you
·         ~Make more friends; and strengthen the bonds with old ones
     ~Value family; and continue supporting each other
·         ~Burn more than consumed (calories and stress); And celebrate the process
·         ~Write regularly; Really this time
·         ~Never give up on a chance to see the rising Sun; And find reasons to get the chance
·         ~Never miss a chance to share a story with the kids: and find reasons to tell the story
    ~Give back to Nature; after giving thanks 
·        ~Laugh – No reason needed
·         ~Pray – Life is the reason to pray
·         ~Celebrate – is the reason to be alive
·         ~Stay grateful – Always

And I am grateful to be back in twenties 😊
2020 here we are, let us make it memorable