Defining Being

As you may know me.... I try to pen my feelings, with more honesty than with language and grammar. While reading the posts below you may experience what compelled me to write these.
While I was thinking of giving a name to my Blog; this came to me; "Nuances of Being"
Being "Me" is the best that I am at and hope that will show in the posts below

And Thanks for reading

~Nikhil




Tuesday, March 31, 2026

From Back of my Notebook - 13

Some days the notes on the back of my notebook are reminders and some day they are surprise to me too, they are my notes to me, very personal, very intimate. And at times overwhelmingly asking me to share them with you. Some such notes from back of my notebook about LEADERSHIP  , a reminder for all the leaders out there and a starting point for anyone who wants to lead. 

  • Leadership is a quality of the heart
  • High fives are not merely given with the hands, those are given with the heart
  • If a leader stops listening to their followers, the followers will stop following the leader eventually.
  • A leader must always Listen with empathy and not just auditory appliances 
  • Empathy is most important quality needed to be a leader
  • A leader who is not truthful to the followers eventually loses all respect
  • In a dog-eat-dog world, lead with humanity and refuse to get in the race to become the Alpha Dog
  • The opportunity to lead is a Responsibility and ability to lead is a Blessing.




Last 12 pages form back of my notebook Below, in reverse chronological order




3 comments:

  1. Yes leadership is great responsibility, but now a days true leaders are endangered species

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  2. This is a beautifully honest and reflective piece. The thoughts feel deeply personal yet universally relevant, especially the emphasis on empathy, listening, and leading with humanity. The simplicity of your words makes the message even more powerful—reminding us that true leadership comes from the heart, not authority.

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