One (Intentional) Step

An old proverb "a thousand mile journey starts with 1 step". One step at a time still is the surest way to cover a thousand miles.  Willingness and commitment to each of those steps is a must to eventually arrive at your destination. But even more critical is to take the very first step. Before that 1st step,  the commitment to travel a 1000 miles is needed

One can always ask, what will the willingness alone do, if one lacks ability to walk? Though a fair question, but an equally fair response is that true willingness has strength to create ability to walk, or to find another way.

Those who have travelled know that there will be days when each foot may weigh a ton. This short note is just a reminder for those days. A reminder to take that 1st step. Don't  use the feet alone to take the step, pour genuine intent into it. Invest your faith in each step. Invest your faith in what is waiting for you at the end of the 1000 mile journey. 

You will reach, just remember One ( intentional) step at a time (raised with faith) is indeed the surest way to walk a Thousand miles.

Touch Sensitive

Lot of people born in the eighties or before will remember very different gadgets from what we commonly use today.

The wired phones, even those with rotary dials. The black and white televisions making way for their colorful next generation. Knobs to change the channels. 

The knobs and the rotary dials step aside to make way for the buttons. The buttons slowly moved from the devices to remotes based on infra red technology. The cassette players, morphing into smaller handheld walkman. Soon after cassettes left the stage to let the spotlight shine on the compact  disks. At the same time walkman decided to upgrade to CD as well. But shortly the music and the videos moved to memory cards and then directly to devices.

Every so often a development fast tracking the journey of its predecessor to move from Old to obsolete.  A big leap was "touch", the devices started being sensitive to touch and the sensitivity and control from touch has been getting finer every day. Newer devices are way more touch sensitive than what started more than 15 years ago.

Each technological development, by design, improved the comfort and day to day efficiency of tasks.

However, when you look at the impact on people, there has been a similar trend, although not noticed or related directly. 

During the rotary phone days people were tough, resilient immune to praise and criticism,  were hardworking and so on. Then came the seventies and eighties, the push button users. Strong, opinionated, ready to make a difference, eager to exert effort. People in these times didn’t like their " buttons" to be pushed the wrong way. Took some intent and effort to push those buttons and they reacted. 

The remote users developed more sensitive buttons, quick to react, indirect criticism started getting noticed in these times. 

And finally the touch sensitivity arrived. People in this time became very sophisticated, very smart, appeared informed, quick to accomplish great things. Efficient users of resources and multitaskers. At the same time becoming overly sensitive to touch. A little push or a gentle brush can result in huge impact. Each one connected to a global web through a zillion media applications, so the touch need not be physical, it can be remote from across the continents. Can’t operate without 'touch'. But with heightened sensitivity the touch needs to be precise. 

In my support, I want to mention that till about 10-12 years ago, I had never heard an elementary schooler state " my feelings are hurt. " A statement that I've heard even from preschoolers regularly these days.  In older times people were introduced to those deeper feelings much later in their lives.  

Again, it is not about a particular age group, people across the generations are becoming more 'touch sensitive' every passing day. 

While the sensitivity is increasing, sensibility seems to be on a decline. A very disturbing trend. Two trends in two wrong directions. With that heightened sensitivity and diminished sensibility, add the remote access to those over sensitive feelings through the social media apps. The apps that serve information and mis-information blended with a finesse. The AI generated media, the deepfakes and so on. The touch sensitivity has created a large size of very volatile and remote controllable population.  

Not a criticism, just an observation. 

But also a hope that some old fashioned  sensibility develops in place of excessive sensitivity to start the healing process which might be really needed. 

 

 

 

 

 

I A S for Success

Initially I started writing this as a quick note as a new year suggestion for the School and College students and People who are new to work-force. While writing, I realized that many of us can use this. Intentionally kept it generic and simplistic.

 

IAS is what one needs to succeed. 

(No, not the IAS as in Indian bureaucrats, read below for what I mean by IAS)

 Intent   - This is a measure of attitude towards the task  being performed and the field that it is performed in.

Ability - This is a measure of the skill set that one possesses to perform the task. Ability needs to be developed through right effort. If one has the Intent, then one can work on developing the Ability. 

Situational awareness - This is a measure of responsibility one displays while performing a task. Alertness to understand the situation and fine tune the performance accordingly. This is what a pilot with right Intent and right ability will use to correct the course and keep the flight safe and comfortable. 

Adherence to these three is a sure way to Success. When you have the right intent and attitude.  Followed by right preparation to attain needed skill and excellence.  Continuing to keenly adjust your course of action based on situational nuances. The result is a certain Success.

Success - This is measured by a scorecard, satisfactory completion of a task, personal growth, contentment, joy, respect earned, trust invested and victory.

 

PS: I encourage you to apply this IAS in any field and witness that it leads you to Success. Share your experience when you apply this.

 

Welcome 2025

For many years, I have been writing this to recap the year that left and to welcome the year that is starting. Thanks friends and family who read this and send me notes, comments, good wishes, blessings and a lot more. I am always grateful for that. This year's post is very personal. 

2024 for me and my family was a year like no other. We did so many things that in any circumstance will be listed as huge ups in life. My wife started a new Job, my older son got into the college of his choice, we bought a new house so all that can be listed as a big bold check mark in the list of life. But before any of these, one person decided to not read any of my blogs. Not just any reader, the most important one, the one who has been my critic and my mentor in every step of my life, My Mom. She decided to leave us all in February of 2024. While the year gave many material things, it took a large chunk of the heart and soul away. 

It is painful to lose a part of you, however in this case I didn't lose a part, I lost the 'Whole' that I have been comfortably a part of all my life. She used to say that I will always be a child in her eyes. I always felt strange, how can she even think that, for a 50-year-old man. But since the day I lost her, I frequently feel lost like a child. 

I strongly believe that, after she ascended to heaven, she negotiated with the almighty to grant us all so many things that we had wanted for quite some time. Like a new job for my wife, a new home for us all, a transfer to a better place for my brother, admission to the college of choice for 2 of her grandchildren; the list goes on. We all want to  enjoy those blessings with her, but she is not here anymore. Knowing her, she will be celebrating each of these gifts from where she is. She celebrated everyone's success (irrespective of her relation with that person) from the core of her caring heart.

This sums up what 2024 has been for me. All the political and social and economic events in the world just weaved through as the back ground acts in a stage play, while personal flow of life stayed center stage in 2024. The elections in my birth country India and my current nation USA in 2024 have been very significant for the world to come in future. Staying hopeful of a great tomorrow is important, which ever side of the political aisle you see yourself on.

Anyhow this is a post is about welcoming 2025, and as promised on Jan 1 2024, let us review the list we made at the start of 2024 and recommit for 2025

Humanity - I still repeat my OSOR (One Species One Race) slogan as we need that more and more. Let us attempt to break away the race, region and gender identities. Be PROUD OF OSOR each day of the year.

Family – A key reason for being, a key motivation for doing what all one does. Health is very precious, I wrote this last year, and repeat again for everyone, you may not even know what you are WORTH TO SOMEONE; stay healthy for your family each day of the year

Kids - To my son and my niece in college, now that you are enjoying independence; I encourage you to SPREAD THE WINGS even wider while also suggesting to STRENGTHEN THE ROOTS that have made who you are. For my younger boy; you can shine brighter than most, keep faith and focus. All kids SHINE BRIGHT each day of the year.

Friends - Can not be more grateful for each one of you. Last year I requested you to "BE THERE" and you were there when I needed it. I will not take it for granted as blessings should never be taken for granted. I hope to stay worthy of having each one of you in my life. I PROMISE TO BE THERE for you each day of the year

Self – On 1^st January 2024 I wrote HOLD ON (no matter what the challenge, the stakes or the state of mind). Didn't know that I would be tested on that promise, I did not break it. What remains is still too worthy to give up. Revising the promise to HOLD ON (No matter what the challenge, the stakes or the state of mind) each day of the year.

Celebration - Celebrating everyone’s achievements can be so liberating and fulfilling. CELEBRATE each day of the year

God - You only know what you do. I am not complaining about what was lost in 2024; and I repeat my request to GUIDE AND HEAL, listen to our prayers or don't but give us all what is best for us each day of the year

 

 HAPPY NEW YEAR MAY THIS YEAR BE EXCELLENT IN EVERY WAY FOR YOU

2024 note to revisit: https://nuancesofbeing.blogspot.com/2024/01/welcome-2024.html