जो होगा ...देखा जायेगा

Technology growth these days is phenomenal, although technology job market stays volatile. Since I have always worked in technology sector, so the triumph of technology growth and the job market scares both echo close to ears. Around 10 days ago there was a news about job cuts in an organization where I have many friends working. That followed by a much larger job cut this week in another organization. I spoke with many of my friends impacted in last few days. sharing a few thoughts below that were verbalized more than once in those talks.

ज़रूरतें है

किराया है

इधर उधर का खर्चा है 

पर जिंदगी उस से बहुत बड़ी है 

इसलिए don't worry 

जो होगा.. देखा जायेगा

रिश्ते - रिश्तेदारिया हैं 

दोस्त हैं यारियां हैं 

अच्छा या बुरा चर्चा है 

पर जिंदगी उस से बहुत बड़ी है 

इसलिए don't worry 

जो होगा.. देखा जायेगा

काम हैं, जिम्मेदारियां हैं

आज करनी कल की तैयारीया हैं 

कभी सेहत का भी हर्जा है 

पर जिंदगी उस से बहुत बड़ी है 

इसलिए don't worry 

जो होगा.. देखा जायेगा

जिंदगी इंद्रधनुष सी है

जो दिखते नहीँ वो भी रंग है 

हर एक का अपना तरीका है

हर किसी के अपने ढंग है 

अच्छा, बुरा, कुछ बहुत बुरा है 

कोई खुश है तो कोई बिगड़ा है

पर जिंदगी उस से बहुत बड़ी है 

इसलिए don't worry 

जो होगा.. देखा जायेगा

From Back of my Notebook - 12

It was annoying to get the rain, and then came the Rainbow

Never go to bed angry, resolve whatever it is, before sleeping. Better dreams assurance if you do.

Always greet with a smile and warmth. Even if your house is cold, your heart should stay warm to those who visit.

Always say bye with a smile, let people carry that image of you, till they meet you next.

While going outdoors; Pray, for a sunny day, still always pack an Umbrella. The Almighty might have plans to greet you with freshly washed landscapes and may be a rainbow hanging in the sky.

Rainbow has many colors, only 7 of them are visible to us, never lose faith in colors that you don't see, know that they are there.

Not being able to see colors beyond the 7 in the rainbow is a blessing, don't confuse it to be a limitation.

Moonlit nights are as beautiful as starlit nights, enjoy the beauty and don't judge the moon's appearance on any night.

The clouds that mask the moon and darken the night are the same clouds that bring life giving rain. Never forget that on dark cloudy nights.

Last 11 pages form back of my notebook Below, in reverse chronological order

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स्वविश्वास (एक पेड़ की कथा) / Confidence (Story of a tree)

स्वविश्वास (एक पेड़ की कथा) / Confidence (story of a tree)

Scroll down if you don't read Hindi

पेड़ को गर्व था

थी जड़ें इतनी गहरी

सालो से तना खड़ा था

जंगल के एक छोर का प्रहरी

 

तूफ़ान कितना भी हुंकारा

किन्तु पेड़  गिरा नहीँ 

आँधियो ने पत्ते नोचे पर

पेड़ तनिक भी हिला नहीँ

अचल अडिग अजेय

पेड़ अनगिन युगों से 

स्वविश्वास लिए  खड़ा रहा

फिर एक दिन चंचल चिड़िया

आ के पेड़ के कान में बोली

काश तुम चल सकते तो देखते

पहाड़ के उस ओर भी एक जंगल है

झील है, झरने हैं, प्रकृति का सौंदर्य है  

पर

काश तुम चल सकते तो देखते ! 

पेड़ ने सुना और सोचने लगा 

जो गर्व था  वो कुछ ढह सा गया

जड़ ताकत नहीँ बाधक लगी

प्रहरी का स्वविश्वास उस पल से

पंगु का स्व-आभाव बन गया

पत्ते पीले हो कर गिरने लगे

जड़ निर्बल हो मुरझाने लगी 

दीमक तने के बल को खाने लगी 

और जो सदियों के तूफ़ान ना कर सके

वो चंचल चिड़िया का उलाहना कर गया 

पेड़ का  विश्वास हताहत हुआ और 

पेड़ खोखला हो स्वत् ही मर गया !

For my friends who don't read hindi - 

The tree was very proud, its roots ran so deep. For years its trunk had been standing, Sentinel of one end of the forest. No matter how menacing the storm roared, the tree did not fall. The winds shattered its leaves but could never move the tree even a bit.

Immovable, unshakable, invincible!

The tree stood there rooted in self-confidence for countless ages

Then one day a mischievous bird came and whispered in the tree's ear

“If only you could walk, you would see, there is a forest on the other side of the mountain too. There are lakes, waterfalls, the beauty of nature on that side is mesmerizing.

Alas, you can’t; If only you could walk, you would see”

 The tree heard that and started thinking. The pride it held for centuries, started to crumble. The unshakable roots that had been his pride, started appearing to be an obstacle. The self-confidence of the sentinel turned into self-doubt of a cripple in that moment. The leaves turned yellow and started to fall. The roots lost its power and started withering, the termites saw the opportunity and infested the trunk, gnawing its strength away.

 So, what the storms of centuries could not do, was done by the misplaced pity of the mischievous bird. The tree lost its faith in its own strength, became hollow and eventually died on its own.

Moral of the story ( Poem)

~ Learn not to be like this Tree and let any doubt impact your self esteem and confidence

~ Try not to be like this bird and hurt someone's pride even by subtle suggestions and misplaced sympathy

लम्हों के किस्से

 लम्हों के किस्से 

लम्हों को सहेज कर 

ज़हन के दामन में रख लेना 

लम्हा जब पनपा तो ता-उम्र 

का  किस्सा बन जायेगा 

काटना, बांटना, छांटना    

जैसे भी सुनाना उसे 

तुम्हारी शख्सियत तुम्हारे वजूद का

वो एक हिस्सा बन जायेगा 

हर महफ़िल में सब फिर

तुम्हारे किस्से याद करेंगे

उन किस्सों की  बातें

तुम्हारे साथ, तुम्हारे बाद करेंगे 

तुम किस्सों की जान बनना

किस्से तुम्हें ज़िंदा रखेंगे 

इसलिए 

लम्हों को सहेज कर 

ज़हन के दामन में रख लेना 

लम्हा जब पनपा तो ता-उम्र 

का  किस्सा बन जायेगा 

One (Intentional) Step

An old proverb "a thousand mile journey starts with 1 step". One step at a time still is the surest way to cover a thousand miles.  Willingness and commitment to each of those steps is a must to eventually arrive at your destination. But even more critical is to take the very first step. Before that 1st step,  the commitment to travel a 1000 miles is needed

One can always ask, what will the willingness alone do, if one lacks ability to walk? Though a fair question, but an equally fair response is that true willingness has strength to create ability to walk, or to find another way.

Those who have travelled know that there will be days when each foot may weigh a ton. This short note is just a reminder for those days. A reminder to take that 1st step. Don't  use the feet alone to take the step, pour genuine intent into it. Invest your faith in each step. Invest your faith in what is waiting for you at the end of the 1000 mile journey. 

You will reach, just remember One ( intentional) step at a time (raised with faith) is indeed the surest way to walk a Thousand miles.

Touch Sensitive

Lot of people born in the eighties or before will remember very different gadgets from what we commonly use today.

The wired phones, even those with rotary dials. The black and white televisions making way for their colorful next generation. Knobs to change the channels. 

The knobs and the rotary dials step aside to make way for the buttons. The buttons slowly moved from the devices to remotes based on infra red technology. The cassette players, morphing into smaller handheld walkman. Soon after cassettes left the stage to let the spotlight shine on the compact  disks. At the same time walkman decided to upgrade to CD as well. But shortly the music and the videos moved to memory cards and then directly to devices.

Every so often a development fast tracking the journey of its predecessor to move from Old to obsolete.  A big leap was "touch", the devices started being sensitive to touch and the sensitivity and control from touch has been getting finer every day. Newer devices are way more touch sensitive than what started more than 15 years ago.

Each technological development, by design, improved the comfort and day to day efficiency of tasks.

However, when you look at the impact on people, there has been a similar trend, although not noticed or related directly. 

During the rotary phone days people were tough, resilient immune to praise and criticism,  were hardworking and so on. Then came the seventies and eighties, the push button users. Strong, opinionated, ready to make a difference, eager to exert effort. People in these times didn’t like their " buttons" to be pushed the wrong way. Took some intent and effort to push those buttons and they reacted. 

The remote users developed more sensitive buttons, quick to react, indirect criticism started getting noticed in these times. 

And finally the touch sensitivity arrived. People in this time became very sophisticated, very smart, appeared informed, quick to accomplish great things. Efficient users of resources and multitaskers. At the same time becoming overly sensitive to touch. A little push or a gentle brush can result in huge impact. Each one connected to a global web through a zillion media applications, so the touch need not be physical, it can be remote from across the continents. Can’t operate without 'touch'. But with heightened sensitivity the touch needs to be precise. 

In my support, I want to mention that till about 10-12 years ago, I had never heard an elementary schooler state " my feelings are hurt. " A statement that I've heard even from preschoolers regularly these days.  In older times people were introduced to those deeper feelings much later in their lives.  

Again, it is not about a particular age group, people across the generations are becoming more 'touch sensitive' every passing day. 

While the sensitivity is increasing, sensibility seems to be on a decline. A very disturbing trend. Two trends in two wrong directions. With that heightened sensitivity and diminished sensibility, add the remote access to those over sensitive feelings through the social media apps. The apps that serve information and mis-information blended with a finesse. The AI generated media, the deepfakes and so on. The touch sensitivity has created a large size of very volatile and remote controllable population.  

Not a criticism, just an observation. 

But also a hope that some old fashioned  sensibility develops in place of excessive sensitivity to start the healing process which might be really needed. 

 

 

 

 

 

I A S for Success

Initially I started writing this as a quick note as a new year suggestion for the School and College students and People who are new to work-force. While writing, I realized that many of us can use this. Intentionally kept it generic and simplistic.

 

IAS is what one needs to succeed. 

(No, not the IAS as in Indian bureaucrats, read below for what I mean by IAS)

 Intent   - This is a measure of attitude towards the task  being performed and the field that it is performed in.

Ability - This is a measure of the skill set that one possesses to perform the task. Ability needs to be developed through right effort. If one has the Intent, then one can work on developing the Ability. 

Situational awareness - This is a measure of responsibility one displays while performing a task. Alertness to understand the situation and fine tune the performance accordingly. This is what a pilot with right Intent and right ability will use to correct the course and keep the flight safe and comfortable. 

Adherence to these three is a sure way to Success. When you have the right intent and attitude.  Followed by right preparation to attain needed skill and excellence.  Continuing to keenly adjust your course of action based on situational nuances. The result is a certain Success.

Success - This is measured by a scorecard, satisfactory completion of a task, personal growth, contentment, joy, respect earned, trust invested and victory.

 

PS: I encourage you to apply this IAS in any field and witness that it leads you to Success. Share your experience when you apply this.