Defining Being

As you may know me.... I try to pen my feelings, with more honesty than with language and grammar. While reading the posts below you may experience what compelled me to write these.
While I was thinking of giving a name to my Blog; this came to me; "Nuances of Being"
Being "Me" is the best that I am at and hope that will show in the posts below

And Thanks for reading

~Nikhil




Saturday, October 20, 2018

Conversations Characters and a Ride Share - 2nd

International Passenger service

As promised here is the 2nd installment of the conversations. And today I start talking about professions.

Many of the drivers on the app-based ride share services that I have met are not full-time drivers. They have other professions and they do this to on the side for many reasons. Income augment is sometimes one of those reasons.

Once I was in Dallas Texas and had used a ride service from North Plano to DFW  (Dallas Fort Worth) Airport. The distances in Texas are really Texas size. In almost 1-hour drive, I started with my general query, "Is this your full-time work, or you do something else besides this app-based cab driving?"

He smiled and said, no this is only a few days a month rest of the time I do something else, very similar in general term but still so different. Mystery element in the statement was obvious especially when he turned to me and smiled. So, what exactly you do? I take passengers from one place to another a little longer distance than my car rides. To be precise from Dallas to Japan, I am a pilot. Wow! I said while my eyes widened. So why do you do this, I am sure flying international pays a lot. 
Maybe, but I don't do it for money he said. I am flying international almost 15 days a month and resting a few, that leaves me with just one week or less each month. Too little to make friends and plan anything. By driving this I connect with people, I learn and live. Gives me a feeling of being connected. Thinking of him sitting in the cockpit of a big airliner for hours with minimal human interaction, except occasional chat with copilots or a nudge from the crew for food or so. I could well understand his reason for driving. 
Lately, I am being afraid of flying give me some advice, I asked. Statistically speaking, planes are safer than cars, he replied with a hearty laugh. But then with serious note he said, to overcome fear of flying, learn to fly and then you will be good. Great advice, not that I am planning to follow any time soon. He gave me some more tips on knowing about planes and their safety etc. I shared what I do for a living and some insights of life from my vantage point, when he asked. Over all we had a great conversation Mr. Pilot and Mr. Cab driver in alter ego. 
May you continue having great conversations and stay fulfilled. One day I may act on your advice, but "the planes are safer than cars" have made me bit more confident about flying. Not sure how it has impacted my driving. 
Aha! Caught you there my friend. Hope to see you another time on another trip till then safe flying and happy driving.

1st note in this series below if you did't read earlier 
https://nuancesofbeing.blogspot.com/2018/10/conversations-characters-and-ride-share.html 



5 comments:

  1. It's a paradigm shift. In profession we stick ourselves to a very limited sphere. World around is huge and full of possibilities but we remain too myopic

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  2. Good one! This gives insight into one of the elements to make our lives more fulfilling. I liked it

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